In order for the study to be reliable, you need a true sample of the population. CARP surveying its members is not valid. These are people who have paid money to belong to this lobby group. And their opinions are just that - not data. NICE is conducting a better, reliable and valid survey, supervised by social scientists: Defining and measuring elder abuse.
Myths of Elder abuse abound. Personally, we need more people in more private homes to watch for such abuse. Those situated in long-term care, especially those with great staff, do monitor each other.
I would believe, from MY work in eldercare, that there are more caregivers, paid and unpaid, who are abused, than the opposite.
How to help aging, abusive parents
Is this valid? The question, have you EVER experienced abuse is misleading. Elder abuse occurs when you are elderly. Those answering can respond from any experience, at any age.
Firstly, do you notice the above chart: 93.1% have not experienced abuse in Q. 1, yet in Q. 2, suddenly 92.4%, a difference in 10 votes, haven't been abused. Many more of my clients have engaged in self-neglect, rather than elder abuse.
Secondly, this doesn't have construct validity. Can you say you've been verbally abused?
I can. I have been shoved by a large, angry parent while doing hall duty as a teacher. I've had parents yell at me. I've been yelled at by angry kids. But until the verbal abuse is persistent, it is not abuse. Angry clients with dementia have yelled at me, including my late father, but that isn't verbal/psychological abuse.
Thirdly, elder or child abuse is wrong. Neglect is wrong. But abuse is very different from understanding how seniors ought to be cared for, neglecting someone may mean they didn't have the education or knowledge to do so in the first place. With 70-year-olds caring for 90-somethings, they do the best they can. Many more understand raising a child. Much fewer understand caring for failing seniors. They need footcare, and often dental care. Many die from aspiration pneumonia. There are those who do not visit a dentist. Is this abuse or neglect?
Medscheck to ensure the medications are being taken correctly, and they aren't taking too many. Visit your pharmacist for Medscheck. In Ontario the government pays for a pharmacist to check in with you and your medications. Polypharmacy is a terrible issue with some seniors.
Many seniors fail to use mobility devices, walkers, wheelchairs, and have a fall. This is predictable, and the statistics show how falls hurt many and result in unrecoverable hospital stays.
Does this mean we charge the caregiver with neglect - because they didn't force their spouse/aging parent to use said device?
|Who was the person who inflicted the abuse?|
|Professional caregiver in an institution||6 Votes||0.5 %|
|Professional caregiver in the home||1 Vote||0.1 %|
|Family caregiver - spouse||18 Votes||1.6 %|
|Family caregiver - child||20 Votes||1.7 %|
|Family caregiver - other||9 Votes||0.8 %|
|Trusted advisor (lawyer, accountant, etc)||5 Votes||0.4 %|
|Friend||3 Votes||0.3 %|
|Acquaintance||13 Votes||1.1 %|
|Stranger||13 Votes||1.1 %|
|NEVER BEEN ABUSED||1069 Votes||92.4 %|
Easy on a webpage to complain about family caregivers. I've yelled at my kids; they've yelled at me. That isn't abuse, either. In the above table, at this point, 47 people say they've been abused by a caregiver. It seems as if, if we can believe these stats, that we have to look to the home to ensure the safety of our seniors.
Also, rather than spending millions of dollars on more studies, let's provide more professional homecare, more people in the home, more respite for caregivers, would relieve the stress of caregiving. And it is stressful. As a stay-at-home mom in the 70s/80s, I found it difficult.
As a caregiver in my 50s, it was even worse with my father's brain tumour and resulting dementia. He didn't understand that he didn't understand numeracy principles anymore and couldn't DO his banking. He allowed the bank manager to take his paperwork back and forth from his house to the bank herself. He would have claimed I was financially abusive, as he didn't understand numbers anymore.
My mother, while fighting cancer, had radiation, chemo, and was not herself. She was verbally abusive to me; constantly undermining my authority, refusing to accept CCAC home care while I was living next door and working full time,. Who was abusing whom? She wasn't in her right mind. I knew that. She didn't know what she didn't understand any more.
Next...we have had awareness programs.
These people answering the request for an opinion seem to disagree with themselves.
In fact, abuse is abuse, it should be the police who become involved. It is professional caregivers who can monitor.
Responding to Elder Abuse and Neglect:
The Challenge for Health Care and Social Service Workers
In many cases, 60/40, it is a male response on-line: how many men are caregivers, or in a position to understand abuse?